kitten-mommy-switch:

space-moosey:

x-nithpantiel:

This whole underage Little debate really confuses me. 
Like do you go to a bar and show your ID and have a temper tantrum when the bouncer won’t let you in? Do you scream that it’s not fair and that the adults are mean and won’t let you in to an adult space? Do you walk up to a strip club and start crying because they won’t let you in for being underage? Do you raise all hell when you go up to buy a pack of cigarettes and are declined because you aren’t an adult? Do you lose your shit when you get up to the voters booth and are declined because you are not 18 and therefore unable to vote? Do you gather your band of children together and enter the liquor store and demand that you be allowed to buy alcohol because you WANT to buy alcohol and you FEEL like you should drink alcohol and it’s not faaaaaiiiiirrrr that you can’t buy alcohol??
No. You are a child. BDSM is an adult space. You’re a child; you can wear all the child-like clothes you want and watch all the cartoons you want and colour with all the crayons you want, but that still doesn’t make it LEGAL for you to enter adult communities and spaces. That’s it. End of story! What you do in your personal life is up to you, and if you want to engage in your own little c/l relationships with your fellow child partners then whatever, you do you. But shoving your underage nose into adult space is just unsafe for everyone involved and it further perpetuates the stereotypes regarding BDSM and how it’s abusive and disgusting and full of pedophiles and rapists. 

Preach

Forever will reblog.

fiestasaur:

mischiefmakermax:

brittajj26:

nocturnenebula:

bravestghost:

hey yall its me the Art Mom™ to help you shade pretty

rule 1: DO NOT SHADE WITH BLACK. EVER. IT NEVER LOOKS GOOD. 

• red– shade with a slightly darker shade of purple
• orange– slightly darker and more saturated shade of red
• yellow– i think like..a peach could work but make it a really light peach
• green– shade with darker and less saturated shade of blue or teal
• blue– shade with purple
• purple– a shade thats darker than the purple you’re using and maybe a little pink (MAYBE blue)
• pink– darker shade of red
• white– a really light lavender or blue..or i guess any really light colour??
• black– okay listen dont use pure black to colour anything unless you want to leave it with flat colours because you cant really shade black lol
• grey– a slightly darker shade of purple or blue (less saturated)
• brown– slightly darker and less saturated shade of purple or red

aaaaand thats all i got lol. let me know if there is anything i should add to this list!!

If you’re a visual learner…

I made some Balls of Colour to go with Art Mom™’s post:

SO USEFUL!

thechronicchillpill:

“If youre not hiding anything youll let me look through this” is a gross manipulation tactic

You have every right to keep your stuff private, it is natural to not want people, no matter how close they are, going through your phone/papers/conversations/pictures.

Dont let them trick you into feeling bad because youre a human who wants privacy.

flunkled:

the real gaydar is determining if it’s safe to hold hands in public or not

hansolocareer:

papipapaya:

poefinn:

the tired gay youth energies radiating off of this image is immeasurably powerful

None of those people are gay. PLEASE raise the fucking bar and stop projecting.