Don’t ever apologize for being a sexual fat person. Don’t ever feel like you owe explanations for being an asexual or aromantic fat person. Don’t ever feel embarrassed for flirting while being fat. Don’t ever feel shy to wear those “revealing” clothes you love while being fat, or no clothes at all if the situation is fit for it. Don’t ever believe that fat people can’t be romantically, emotionally and sexually desired.
Don’t ever let external and internal fatphobia stop you from doing the things you want to.
Be as sexual as you want. Have as much sex as you can and want (or no sex at all). Be flirty with as many people as you want. Love as much as you want. Dress as you want and whenever you want. Enjoy those who genuinely love you as much as you can. Do all the things you always wanted to do and don’t give a shit about what fatphobes might think.
– Mod Guillermo
This might be a tangent but this struck something in my brain. The “(or no sex at all)” and ace part is such an important message to spread. I used to be super sexually active, not because I liked it and wanted to, but because I was fetishized and also told to be grateful for any and all sexual attention I did receive. It was really freeing to learn that I didn’t have to be sexual. I know very many fat people struggle with not being “sexually attractive” and I totally feel that, I’ve gone through that too, I just feel like we also don’t tell people that it’s perfectly okay not to be sexual EVEN IF you are told that you should get it whenever you can because it will be so rare.
I see it as the same issue I guess…not letting society’s fatphobia dictate your sexual behaviour. Very important, super A+ important post.
Glad to see that the message I was trying to communicate with that specific part translated and resonated exactly as I intended to ❤
“lol gross dude I can see up ur nose” “always such a sweet-talker, aren’t you?” “u love it” *commence smooches*
why is it that when I try to find creative ways to be lazy and not finish things it ends up taking more time that it would have if I had just lined and colored them like normal?
Now listen, you rich people, weep and wail because of the misery that is coming on you. Your wealth has rotted, and moths have eaten your clothes. Your gold and silver are corroded. Their corrosion will testify against you and eat your flesh like fire. You have hoarded wealth in the last days. Look! The wages you failed to pay the workers who mowed your fields are crying out against you. The cries of the harvesters have reached the ears of the Lord Almighty. You have lived on earth in luxury and self-indulgence. You have fattened yourselves in the day of slaughter. You have condemned and murdered the innocent one, who was not opposing you.— James 5:1-6
At first I thought this was an angry Tumblr post but then it turned out to be the Literal Bible and it got 1000x better
