Don’t ever apologize for being a sexual fat person.
Don’t ever feel like you owe explanations for being an asexual or aromantic fat person.
Don’t ever feel embarrassed for flirting while being fat.
Don’t ever feel shy to wear those “revealing” clothes you love while being fat, or no clothes at all if the situation is fit for it.
Don’t ever believe that fat people can’t be romantically, emotionally and sexually desired.Don’t ever let external and internal fatphobia stop you from doing the things you want to.
Be as sexual as you want.
Have as much sex as you can and want (or no sex at all).
Be flirty with as many people as you want.
Love as much as you want.
Dress as you want and whenever you want.
Enjoy those who genuinely love you as much as you can.
Do all the things you always wanted to do and don’t give a shit about what fatphobes might think.– Mod Guillermo
This might be a tangent but this struck something in my brain. The “(or no sex at all)” and ace part is such an important message to spread. I used to be super sexually active, not because I liked it and wanted to, but because I was fetishized and also told to be grateful for any and all sexual attention I did receive. It was really freeing to learn that I didn’t have to be sexual. I know very many fat people struggle with not being “sexually attractive” and I totally feel that, I’ve gone through that too, I just feel like we also don’t tell people that it’s perfectly okay not to be sexual EVEN IF you are told that you should get it whenever you can because it will be so rare.
I see it as the same issue I guess…not letting society’s fatphobia dictate your sexual behaviour. Very important, super A+ important post.
Glad to see that the message I was trying to communicate with that specific part translated and resonated exactly as I intended to ❤
– mod Guillermo
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