closet-keys:

• Lesbians are nothing like straight people. 
• Butch lesbians are nothing like straight men. 
• Femme lesbians are nothing like straight women. 
• Butches do not dress like or emulate straight men.
• Femmes do not dress like or emulate straight women. 
• Butch lesbians do not have male privilege or the male gaze. 
• Femme lesbians do not have straight privilege from being able to “pass” as straight. 
• Butch/Femme couples are not heteronormative. 
• Butches and Femmes dress like no one but themselves. Their presentation has nothing to do with straight people. 
• Butches and Femmes are both oppressed as lesbians. Neither has systemic privilege over the other. 
• Butches and Femmes are both inherently radical in refusing to adhere to heteronormativity.